I want to hate him because I think hes a horrible human being as she is for having done this when he should have just left if he wasnt happy. And she says she understands why I was that way. I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating I Been Having This Feeling For Sometime Now I Been Going Through His Phone I Dont See Anything But I Also Know He Could Have Deleted It Idk I Have A Really Big Feeling Hes Doing Something Behind My Back That I Dont Know About And Also Lately If We Are On Bad Terms And He Knows Im Hurting And Upset He Goes To Sleep With Out Fixing The Problem And I Be The One Losing Sleep I Really Need Some Advice. he basically has only ever had to think about getting up and going to work, house work done, clothes cleaned ironed done. I fought for 2+ Yrs to just be a normal person and do normal things and my partner always had a problem accepting the fact that she isnt the center of my world and all we did was argue over it. Long story short. He admitted it to me and when I said never contact me again he said call me in about a month when your knocked up!! I never wanted to split up with him. So time goes by his parents start fighting, they end up divorcing I dont know if it is the main cause for everything but he starts pulling away from me. Allow this step the time it needs to unfold. I can keep trying, he has reached a point of no more, and now Im on the list. Everything I say she says it is not good enough for her. This is the most important question of all. A month ago my husband and I were hanging out with a friend. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 yrs and we recently just parted ways in the past 4 days. But about a week after that, we sat down and talked and it was the best conversation weve had in a long time. This ended in me storming out of his apartment and leaving my promise ring there. She is devastated and doesnt want anything to do with me. he even has blocked all contacts with me. One day during the 3 weeks that I was away, we got into a really heated argument over the fact that he didnt understand my mission of traveling alone. Id heard before I met him, how unserious he was (in relationships and life in general). I only know this because she told me. Thank you. Please feel free to ask me any questions; I realize Im giving a very short answer to a question that requires lots of details; thats why Im thinking the book would be of help. I get so irritated myself that she wont tell me why she is irritated that I just keep asking get until she screams at me to leave her alone. Is a very intelligent man used to be an RN nurse until the car accident. A decision needs to be made soon but I have no idea what I want. In our last msg, i ask if we can be friends . Ever since we had that fall out hes like a changed man. My husband chooses to pretend that his emotional affair; disinterest in our commitment to each other or lack of regular physical intimacy has ever happened drives me insane. Its great! Within 4 years of arrival I caught my husband sitting in a parked car, kissing a 15 year-old neighbor whose family we had befriended. My boyfriend was perfect. I dont know why she didnt jump at the opportunity for divorce when I put it on the table. after having the baby the arguments continued because he spends most of his time away from home . I email her from where I was and tell her I was taking time to reflect on my behavior and how I could better react next time. Please help. He watches porn all the time and masterbates up to 6 times a day. Also, I applaud you for wanting to give a stable home to his children. 7. He hated the city, the job.. and me. Good therapy does not have to last years and decades. Thank you. It seems hes missing an important part of being in the relationship with you. He also admitted to me that we wants to have sex with other women but he still wants me as well. Regardless we were both feeling it. Anyways, some sort of suggestions and way forward from this really what I need. Every time he picks up his phone I get sick knots in my stomach. He said I didnt get to decide who he loved. Best of luck going forward! Even though you didnt actually cheat with this male friend, what you did sounds like spite and that is not healthy for a marriage. So i tried to look past it. She made her share of mistakes like hiding conversations with exes and not wanting to be close in front of exes, but I know at this point that she has always had issues with anxiety and that nothing shady was going on. Help me plzzzzz n I really need this man in my life as I havent seen a love of a father as he left me . He will say it back if I say it first, and on the day I moved, he said it first a few times. 1. His mother laughed at me in that courtroom & she always gave unsolicited advice and I am not fond if that, AT ALL! I just dont know what to do. Hi Mummy I asked him what that was all about & he complained that Peter had made him feel like an idiot & incapable of being the good mechanic he is. Is this a bad habit he picked up from going with the wrong friends? I need to keep him safe and I need to revamp my whole attitude around him. Be strong and know that relationships are a two way street not one sided. Im tired of crying and not eating and being sick to my stomach. I confronted him again. That said, I would not think this will work while he has someone else in the wings. She finding hard to belive that I am going to change or helping myself at the moment. So I understand you losing respect for him. How I treat my boy friend. bucan he fall back in love withcan I gain his trust back can he fall back in love with me how do I try what do I do would there be a chance for us to have a happy life and live long together, I am so sorry for the way I wrote this but I have trouble texting on my phone because its so small so I apologize I hope you can understand what I said I use the microphone. seriously. Yes, when I am asked. We have had arguments off and on and they all stem from the same issue. I was doing really well academically before I met my boyfriend but everything went downhill once I started dating him. Consider the bright side. Partner one fell out of love and no longer felt intimacy for a couple years. Take a plunge and think of what you can say or do that would be romantic and exciting. I have gone through difficult situations of betrayal with him and I lost trust in him then slowly we started in what you described as falling back in love and regaining that trust. It actually happened three times, but after the initial make out, the next times it happened I backed away and told him that it was a bad idea. I still cant believe how stupid I was to not recognise it. Is there any hope? bring her to meet ur parents. She was like a guy came last night and cause trouble and that he took her car key. And that she wanted to leave him for me. He/she matters to you. Good Morning. Thank you so much. My BF and I have been together for 6 years have 2 kids together. He did little stuff like drew roses cut them out and tied a ribbon to send me for v day. It reminds you that she is needy; she doesnt have her act together: She is not strong enough to stand on her ow in this world, both economically and emotionally. We met in highschool, I dropped out and moved in with him and his parents a few months after we got together. Is it even saveable? Things like that. He told me to file for divorce the other day, two days after he asked if I would take him back.my heart is breaking all day long over this. Respect and trust will allow you to open up, little by little. Our arguments grew worse. can you please give me some constructive advice on how to rekindle his interest and increase trust in the relationship. perhaps even for the first time. If I can brave the shame of having the scarlet letter stamped on my head for all to see now. I like the thought of being with someone else because I dont wanna be with a liar and a cheat. I tried my best to avoid him and the relationship conversations but I wasnt always successful. Her and her bf have been together for 7 years now. I didnt want to be like my father and since I finally realized what I was doing, I was able to significantly control my anger from then onward. He struggles on been a husband . Im on a leave of absence from work until 6 weeks after my pregnancy due to anxiety. I kind of considered it a gift to him. She would tell people that I would always only be the stupid girlfriend nothing more because she would be the on,y wife he would ever have. my question for you to think about is: When will you start protecting yourself from verbal abuse? You have the same story as I do. At the moment she said leave it here at the moment I dont think shes decided yet as she is currently trying to heal. i have a situation i am not sure how to handle it its been about a week an a half so far my husband sit me down and told me the situation, he said i am not gonna leave at this point he said ill give you one more chance but if this situation happens again i am done, now neither one of us has ever cheated on the other and thats not what happen i said some things he didnt like about but he did find out that most of what he was told wasnt true, but heres the reason for this post he told me he would give me one more chance to change and he hasnt told me he doesnt love me anymore hes hasnt said anything like that to my face, a few days after we sat down and talked about our marriage crumpling down i seen a message he sent to a friend of ours and he told her he felt our marriage was like the titanic and then a few posts later or it might of been a few days after i didnt really look at the time and dates he messaged her telling her he is only staying with me cause of our sons sake, heres my problem why wont he just tell me the truth instead of lieing to me, i dont want to keep this going if he clearly isnt happy nor in love with me anymore, thats how i took it he told me one thing and told someone else something different, he doesnt talk ugly to me hes nice to me even when our son isnt around he does spend time with me, i understand hes hurt and upset with me and he has every right to be but i dont know if i should try and save my marriage if i am the only one that wants to save it, am i reading this the wrong way or am i reading it the right way and he doesnt want to be married to me anymore hes only doing it because of our 4 year old its not fair to him nor to our son if he clearly wants out, i dont know if he said it cause hes angry and hurt right now or if he really means what he said i am so confused on this matter i dont know what to say, like i said he hasnt told me hes not in love with me anymore i am really confused on which way he wants to go with me, i had a horrible childhood , never knew my parents, and i grew up without the knowledge of who they were and were they are and what happened to them, so it was not easy. 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